I think I'm Pregnant!!!

Yes! and my husband and I are in constant battle whether to have pregnancy test or not. I am 8 days delayed from my monthly period and my husband is waiting for 6 more days for us to take a preggy test. The suspense is killing me!!!!!

Last night was even strange.... While I was cleaning, I let my hubby took off his jeans and just wear his underwear! I find it soooo sexy and I feel so alive. Is this a sign of “paglilihi?” “twas so strange and my hubby felt awkward but he did it for me and for the up coming baby daw.... I hope naa najuy tiki! =)hehehhee

eNNEAGRAM TYPE 7:The Enthusiast

The Busy, Variety-Seeking type:
Spontaneous, Versatile, Acquisitive, and Scattered
Type Seven in Brief
Sevens are extroverted, optimistic, versatile, and spontaneous. Playful, high-spirited, and practical, they can also misapply their many talents, becoming over- extended, scattered, and undisciplined. They constantly seek new and exciting experiences, but can become distracted and exhausted by staying on the go. They typically have problems with impatience and impulsiveness.

At their Best: they focus their talents on worthwhile goals, becoming appreciative, joyous, and satisfied.
 Basic Fear: Of being deprived and in pain
 Basic Desire: To be satisfied and content—to have their needs
fulfilled
 Enneagram Seven with a Six-Wing: "The Entertainer"
 Enneagram Seven with an Eight-Wing: "The Realist"
Key Motivations: Want to maintain their freedom and happiness, to avoid missing out on worthwhile experiences, to keep themselves excited and occupied, to avoid and discharge pain.

To all the Men I loved .... before

Life indeed is full of surprises. 8 years ago, when I met this man I never thought I could end up happily married to him. I give all the credit to my ever faithful and loving husband.

All my life I never consider myself faithful. I find comfort in not being faithful in our long distance relationship. For me it helps a lot to meet other people who in one way or another gave spices to my journey. These people gave me sense or direction. Somehow they helped me realize what true love is.

Here are some people whom I would like to say thank you to, (suppose to be before the wedding) but never had a chance. I hope they could read this one. Guys, you know who you are….

First, Thanks to Mr. D.A.R.E., “the campus crush”. It was so youthful and vibrant to be with you. Although I admit, I know from the very start I was just playing games with you. I’m sorry I caused you too much pain. But now I wish you all the happiness life could ever bring. To your gf: Take care of him Giselle. Your man is so innocuous, so kind. Let him feel loved and you will live like a queen for life.
Thanks to Mr. Nautical. You made me realize how to suffer in deep pain when hurt, failed and crushed by someone your really love.
Thanks to Mr. Manager. Haha! With you, I was almost caught cheating. Almost!! I know you were sincere Mr. Manager but there were just pieces of your personality that I don’t like. Sometimes I think what would life be like if I married you and I know you do too right?
Thanks to Mr. Sun Cellular. The funny innocent guy who knew nothing but to impress me in most unexpected way. It was so romantic and stimulating knowing everyone in CIE is soooooooo jealous of me to have boyfriend so drop-dead gorgeous as you.
Thanks to Mr. Politician and Mr. Businessman. These two are inseparable. It was more than enjoyable to be with you. The time I met you my life turned into an entertainment. I get to know Cebu, I get to know people of class “A” and learn how to be one of them =). I get to enjoy life at its fullest. No regret! Thank you and I hope we meet again.
Ahhhh… Thanks to Mr. Classmate. Another campus crush and the universal sibling crush. Haha! Yes! He is my sister’s crush and it does make things more exciting. It’s just that you were so late to come. Where were you before?
Last but not the least, Thank you to Mr. Traveler. The most craziest person I know. You gave me a lot of pleasurable and unpleasant moments. Although I forced myself to remember only the good and happy ones, but it’s difficult and impossible. But I would rather say thank you in spite and despite because without you, I probably would not realize how I wasted too much time in my life. Because of you I realized God is giving me another chance in life to correct my mistakes and mishaps. I realize it’s time to change the course of my life. And you, You gave me a lot of things that I could never have in my entire life. Thank you so much!

Thank you all for your love, for your care, and most of all thank you for your companionship. And finally! Thanks to Mr. Right. My loving husband. You are just so wonderful. Everything about you is just so right. Being with you is so magical. If I could describe you in 2 words I would say: “Simply Amazing.” I would like to quote what one prominent principal sponsor said in her speech during our wedding “Debby is so lucky to have Mark”. –lightning strike me when I heard that and I want you to know that for as long as I live I will forever thank the Lord for giving me such a beautiful person inside and out. God bless our relationship. cheers to a good life ahead as husband and wife!

Till Death Do Us Part

To have and to hold from this day forward, for better or worse, for richer for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish to death do us part

Two souls with but a single thought,Two hearts that beat as one.

There is no more lovely, friendly and charming relationship, communion or company than a good marriage.
Martin Luther

Remember that happiness is a way of travel, not a destination.

If you have [Love], you don't need to have anything else,

Love is composed of a single soul inhabiting two bodies.
Aristotle




Like the measles, love is most dangerous when it comes late in life.

There are three things that last: faith, hope and love, and the greatest of these is love.

Here Comes the BRIDE

Here she comes on down the aisle
Behind her veil she wears a smile
In her hands the bright bouquet
Daddy's here to give the bride away
Best man fumbles for the band
Groom puts it on her trembling hand
Almost before the vows are through
In her calmest voice she says, "I do."

(You may now kiss the bride)

20 WAYS TO GET RID OF STRESS

.. this article is from the blog site of
http://iluvthailand.wordpress.com/


1.Watch the sunrise or sunset.
2.Grow some plants. - money making plants
3.Enjoy a nice massage. (Swedish or Thai)
4.Spend dinner with your family.
5.Read a novel.
6.Go to a concert.
7.Treat yourself to a health spa. (hm... loving it)
8.Take a walk in the park.
9.Lie on the grass and relax.
10.Learn something new.
11.Get tipsy with good company.
12.Take the dogs for a walk.
13.Sample food at a new restaurant.
14.Cook something special.
15.Phone in to work and say youre sick and then relax.
16.Have a dinner/movie night out (or in).
17.Spend extra time at the gym.
18.Go for a long hike.
19.Volunteer or give to charity.
20.Quit the job which cause the stress in the first place!

Wedding Bells soon =)

Invitation cover - changed!

The picture is not final yet. And there has been a change in our motiff.

POMELO PINK with GOLDEN YELLOW ACCENT

I hate hospitals!

WAhhh.............. Samok! Nagkasakit pajud ko! I was hospitalized last Wednesday Aug. 26.

@ first I thought I was just experiencing some symptoms of UTI but I was wrong. The symptoms include Lower back pain, vomiting and nausea - and it keeps getting worse more and more. Until I decided to submit to the hospital hoping I could get a faster relief and rest maybe. BUT I WAS WRONG!

I chose a room above all the rooms offered. The room was called SUPERSUITE. Only to find out that I cannot get a total rest and complete rest. Almost every minute somebody will come into my room. It maybe a nurse, a student-nurse, a room service, a janitor, a doctor, a visitor! argh!!!!! I couldnt fall asleep because I always hear a knock on the door. And even if I was sleeping I will be awakened by the nurses who will take my BP and body temperature.

I decided to go home. Even if I'm not completely well, I went out. I opted to stay at home. .... nalang. But one thing I missed in the hospital - the food, nothing more, nothing else..

The picture below is known to be the cause of my lower back pain!

Marian Follies Practices

Diary

Our paths crossed last Oct. 9, 1999
Got together on November 18, 1999
Agreed to marry 6 years after =p
Got formally engaged last Feb 14, 2008

Getting married on Oct. 18, 2008 (^_^)

I made this invitation =) nice ba?

Mark and Debby
10.18.2008
Wedding Details
: Dress-up :Eagle's View
: Church :Fatima Parish
: Reception :Cap Building

: Color Motiff : Red with Gold accent

: Dress Code : Formal (No Jeans and T-shirts pls.)

2 Months before our wedding

Hi Guys! Welcome to our blogger site!! :D Cute noh! ahehe We hope you enjoy your visit here. We'll included lots of information & photos. We will continue to add more leading up to and after the big day!!!
The countdown has started and we are very excited to officially commit our love for each other. Ang haba pa ng Things to Do's namin...before kami mag I Do!..hehe But ok lang. Sobrang excited na kami and we're very much enjoying the experience. We are both looking forward to the celebration and are hoping that you will come back to this site often as we will be adding to it as we approach the wedding time. Keep checkin' for our updates guyz esp. if you're one of our guests and most importantly part of the entourage.. :D Please have a look around and let us know what you think.

Davao - Little Japan

Madayaw na adlaw! As Davaoeños would say... In English, Good day!. Yep I'm in Davao na - the 2nd largest city in the world in terms of land area. I'm loving my vacation here. Davao is more laid back than Cebu. A lot of things are different. In the city proper it's a no smoking place. You will be arrested if you do. I think everybody can quit smoking here quickly and effectively. There is no choice left for you. Even in bars and parks, no one is smoking! Can u believe it! Amazing! thats why I like staying here. Plus the city is less polluted, the roads are wider and I can hardly see beggars. I cannot feel the scarcity of rice here in Davao. I think because there is a large area of rice plantation here plus the Government officials are good. They don't allow their people to suffer. The people are mix of muslim, Chinese and tribal influences. Koreans are growing in numbers too, they share the streets with the much more numerous ordinary Davaoeñ0s struggling to make a living. I will include myself sooner or later.

I have a new discovery. Davao is called as "Little Japan" - It has a long Japanese history and until now Japan and Davao has strong ties. If you do like to come and visit here, I can be your tourist guide! if u like. Service charge is negotiable. wink2! =) I also visited a couple of bars here and most of them offer live music. This weekend I will explore the nearby islands of Samal. I heard the area offers clear water, beautiful, healthy corals and even wreck diving. I need to learn how to dive na!!! I cant afford to miss the beauty and wonders of the under water.

So long for now!Take care and have fun!

Boone =)

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Jesus' appearance to the 7 Disciples

Last night I attended a School of the Word; a Verbum Dei activity, and the talk was about Jesus’ third appearance to the 7 disciples after his resurrection.

I was amazed how Jesus was feeling so joyful after being crucified on the cross. After being slaughtered, denied and fierce to death. I was asking him why he appeared to the disciples greeting them “Peace be with you” instead of reprimanding them because of not standing by his side all the time while he was scorned to death. And Jesus told me these… “I resurrected in a good mood. In the same way I died with a good mood because I’m happy I obeyed the will of the Father ‘til the very end.”

Then I had a thought that in order to be happy and peaceful, maybe I too ought to live in accordance to the will of the Father. But then there is a question, How will I know that I am living in accordance to the will of the Father? When Jesus ascended into heaven, He left us with the H. S. (Gal 5:16) Let the spirit direct your lives. If you have the fruits of the spirit, you have been living the will of the Father. What are then the fruits of the Spirit? (Gal 16:22-23) The fruits of the H.S are love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, humility and self-control.

The invitation of Jesus for me is to live out the fruits of the Holy Spirit in every situation in my life. In whatever state of life I have. Allowing the spirit to control my life and lead me where I should be going and what I should be doing. (Gal 16:25) The spirit gives us life; he must control our lives.

Good time,

When the sun goes down the bright neon lights of Soi Cowboy in Bangkok, Thailand come on giving visitors a welcoming glow. A great place to bar hop. You can find the GO GO or massage girl of your dreams and have her spend the night with you. Soi Cowboy is located near Sukhumvit Road between Soi Asoke and Soi 23. Hands down our favorite bars in Bangkok are located at Soi Cowboy where you can find groups of girls trying there best to get you into their bar. Some of the girls are bored some more energetic. Give them a smile and walk in for a beer. If you like what you see then sit and stay for a show! Have fun and enjoy!!!!

Mambo Experience straight from Sukhumvit, Thailand

This Valentines evening my friends and I headed to the Sukhumvit area of Bangkok, a place that has a large concentration of bars, go-go bars, massage parlours and so on. Basically, all the kinds of nightspots that Bangkok has got a reputation for. We were not there to bar-hop, experience the popular Thai massage, dine and we'd booked tickets for a cabaret at a place called Mambo. And when I write cabaret, what I mean is a show that is actually all men, in one state of trans-gender migration or other. Ladyboys, transvestites, she-males - whatever your choice of phrase, or whatever phrase they prefer to be known by, this was what we were here to see. Heck, this is what a lot of visitors to Bangkok are here to see. So, as I walked up the steps to Mambo Cabaret, I suddenly had second thoughts about my choice of clothing(what the!).

The show started at just after 8pm, and the audience seemed to be almost entirely Japanese, with possibly a few Malaysians and Chinese. I had thought it would be largely westerners (or 'farangs', as the Thais would call us), and was really quite surprised at the mostly Asian contingent. We started the evening with a complimentary drink; brought to us at the table that is right in front of the comfy seating (arranged theatre style) and then the dancers came on stage.
There really is a moment of disbelief when you see these women come on stage. I mean men. I mean ... oh, whatever, it's all a bit confusing. Some of the women you can tell were not always so. Perhaps it's the shoulders that are too wide, perhaps a slightly fuller looking face with a square jaw? But then there are others who you would swear were 100% natural born, not-messed-about-with women; women whom you would pass in the shopping aisles and not for a moment think "Jeez, those are some big old hands, she must be a goalkeeper." Some of them don't simply 'pass for female' but are genuinely very attractive (and then you remind yourself: "That's a man you're looking at, it's not real").
By way of example, here is a picture of a (used-to-be) man:

Miss Tiffany 2004 - a contest for the most attractive trans-gender woman that, as our friend Stef put it, usually ends up with "winners that are better-looking than the Miss Thailand winner". Can you see any 5 o'clock shadow here? Nor me.
So, as for the cabaret itself, I have to say that I was impressed with the range of numbers they performed, the comedy aspect (there were some laugh-out-loud moments, despite the fact that the routines were done in foreign languages - it's all in the facial expressions) and the sets and costumes. Perhaps I shouldn't have been surprised by how 'glam' it was in places, but there you go.

The stage scenery and costumes were very colourful.
"In a previous life, I was a fork lift driver but I've since found my niche at Mambo Cabaret."

The 'girl' in the photo above was very popular with one particular group of Japanese girls down at the front. Every time she would go near them, they would all scream and their hands would wave in the air. And there I was thinking that I might come across as a groupie!
After the show guests could have their photo taken with any of the performers (for the small fee of 40 Baht). So we carried on straight for the exit. On the way, we passed the group of Japanese girls once more who, upon seeing their 'idol' had once again gone into a frenzy of screams. I think it's safe to say that they were very keen to have their photo taken next to the star performer. So do we…

I Miss My Life With You

(here's a poem I made for some one who made me laugh and cry)

I miss my life with you

I cannot concentrate on my work

I cannot make things right

Everytime I blink my eyes

I can see myself with you

in the place we've been through

Oh how I long to be with you

I miss my life with you

The laughters, the tears and the heartaches too

Part of me wants to forget you

The other part wants to keep you

I just hope someday I'll see you

Even if I know I can't have you

Crap Potato!

December 2007

Oh I know what you perfectly mean. Either you already know where your next stop and you don't want to hurt my feelings or you make it sound so lax that I won't worry about our future. You know what, It's okay. I'm never gonna ask about our future. We are totally different persons. We have different worlds. (apart!) What we have at the moment is temporary. What we have is fantastic, dynamic yet so DREAMY. What we have is like almost impossible but i'm still so glad it happened to me, I don't know why, don't ask me anyway. I mean I don't have any retgret or something. What's more is - you don't have to tell me what I should do for my future; as if you care!!! I know what I have to do and when And where. I don't need you! Daym! I know from the very start I'm not included in your plans. I know from the very start that you just like to have a full blast worlds of fun fun fun! See, I don't ask anything from you. It's you who gave me almost everything. As for me, I just want to be remembered as the lady who makes your stay in #@&* worth it. The rest -- it's all yours, take it back with you where ever you go.....

I hate myself for bringing back memories of you...

March 11, 2008

And here I am again. Bringing back the memories I had with you. I’m desperate. I want to shop but I can’t because I don’t have money anymore. Life was different when you were here with me. My life was so comfortable. I don’t have to wait for anther payroll to finance myself because I have you. But now I’m broke. Just like before and again. I cannot do what I want to do. I cannot buy what I want to buy. In times like this I always remember you and the life I had with you. With you I don’t worry about the taxi fare, the price of the commodity, I don’t worry about the dinner. I always enjoy our quiet dinner at any fancy restaurants we find in the lonely planet. Life was so different with you in it. Now I have to pay for my dinner, eat alone, pay my own massage, take jeepney instead of taxi and worst thing is; I used to do what we love to do and eat what we love to eat alone, with out you and that’s the hardest part. Your memory is still alive and its haunting me where ever I go, what ever I do. How can I avoid you? How can I forget you? I don’t want to be stucked in my own country with nothing but memories of you…